Affair recovery
Affair recovery coaching, in Fort Wayne or virtual
After disclosure, two people are living in the same house with different injuries. Recovery work gives the weeks that follow a structure.
01
Who it is for
This is for you if…
- The couple in the weeks and months after disclosure.
- The partner who was betrayed and cannot stop replaying it.
- The partner who disclosed and wants to rebuild trust, not manage it.
- Couples unsure whether the marriage survives, and not ready to decide today.
02
In the room
What a session looks like.
- 01
We start with safety and ground rules, because nothing else holds without them.
- 02
Honest disclosure is treated as a practice, repeated in small units rather than announced once.
- 03
Faith questions are faced directly, including anger at God and questions about forgiveness.
03
For clarity
What this is not.
- No deadline on forgiveness, and no pressure to say the marriage is fine.
- Not a place to manage a partner's reactions or shorten their grief.
- Not a replacement for clinical care where there is trauma, addiction, or danger.
Not sure which side of the line you are on? Read the plain comparison or ask in your first message.
04
Questions
Answered plainly.
How soon after disclosure should we start?
The first few weeks matter. Starting early gives both of you a structure before the initial shock hardens into a permanent pattern of defending and pursuing. If the disclosure was very recent, a single session to set ground rules is a reasonable beginning.
What if my partner will not come?
One person can still do real work. Individual sessions focus on stabilizing you, deciding what honesty you need, and setting boundaries you can hold whether or not your partner joins. Couples work can begin later if both are willing.
Start with one conversation.
Send a request and you will hear back with available times, in person or online.